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Shit Pick Up Artists Say

Shit PUAs Say

Dude, are you wearing that really cool affliction shirt? You know, the one with the flames?
Did she send you a text? You gonna text her back? Don’t text her back, bro, that’s so needy!
Hey man, you Iceman_ 21? Gmoney _232323

No, I’m not going out with her tonight, I have to write my lay report.
Dude, go open that chick. I’ll give you 10 bucksto open hat chick.
Dude, there’s this line, it’s money, I totally read it on a forum.
Go ask her if her nails are real…
It’s not eyeliner, it’s” guy-liner”  -  the chicks love it!
Ask her if her eyelashes are real…
Give me a sec, bro, I need to get into state.
Dude, ask her if her hair is real.
So this total HB 10, right? She sent me a text message; she wanted to go ice skating. What do you think I said? “Hell, no! Ice skating’s not alpha!”
I’m actually ranked the 4th best PUA n southern Cincinnati.
Ask her if her boobs are real.
Hey bro, are young to the sarge-athon tonight?
John? You can’t pick up chicks with a name like John, you won’t get anyone. From now on, you could be Sexual Six-pack.
I was with this Russian chick …
So last night I was with this model, right?
Last night, picked up a stripper…
Last night, right? I was with this cheerleader chick.
You know, I think for Halloween I’m going to be a Facebook wall.
How do you get a same-night lay? Dude, easy – three steps. One, go up to her. Two, be alpha. three, tell her what you want – bam! Pussy  every time.

Man, how can I NLP this chick into getting an abortion?

So I’m in venue right when I see this HB across the room. She’s spitting at me IOI’s. So I go up, I open, I transition, out of nowhere comes this AMOG with this DHV story and he ruined my SNL. So I did the only thing I could do .I gave him a DLV that I learned from RSD which totally LJBF’d him. And I got to set it up for an MLTR. Back at my place, she gave me some LMR which made me feel like a total AFC. Out of nowhere she started busting out some bad ASD when I was trying to bump her BT – do ya feel me?

You like this headband? Lock in prop.
One time I picked up Paris Hilton. Well, she gave me her Twitter.
Alright, man. Now I’m going to teach you the micro macro jumbo hyper multi-level hoop calibration theory.
Hey, who do you think is better, Style or Mystery?
Hey, do you think this nail polish makes me look gay?

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Feel free to add your own suggestions of lines we could have included in the comments below!

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Men Don’t Actually Think about Sex Every 7 Seconds

According to Ohio State University it is a myth that men think about sex all day every day.

Men don't think about sex every 7 seconds

The research they’ve been doing into the subject shows that men do think about sex more than women but they also think about eating and sleeping more than women. Researches had students complete questionnaires about the frequency of their thoughts about sex, eating, and sleeping for a week.  The findings showed that on average women think about sex approximately 10 times a day, eating 15 times a day, and sleeping 8.5 times a day.  Men on average thought about sex 19 times a day, eating 18 times a day, and sleep 11 times a day.

Following the standard held view that men think about sex every seven seconds would mean they have 8,000 thoughts about sex while awake. This is an important finding that will help correct stereotypes about men.

Frequent thoughts about sex are more connected to how comfortable a person is with their own sexuality than than what gender they are.

The study also found that women who are more concerned with social acceptance were less likely to think about sex which may be linked to the idea that thinking about sex is not a typical expectation, or stereotype, for women.

Fisher, the head researcher of the study says that society has no real reason to believe men think about sex so much more than women. There has been no past research to show that men think about sex every seven seconds.

Read more on the article here

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Male Birth Control?

 


A daily pill for men?

Good news ladies scientists at Columbia University Medical Center are getting closer to developing a oral contraceptive for men.

Most of the research so far into male birth control methods has revolved around attempting to slow or stop production of sperm using steroids such as testosterone that interfere with the growth cycle of the sperm.

Scientists have been testing a non-steroidal contraceptive on mice, this compound stops sperm production.  This non-steroidal birth control has shown none of the side effects that are such a problem with steroidal birth controls.  Such side effects can include loss of libido and increased risk of heart disease.

Unfortunately the male birth control pill has to go through more vigorous testing before being available to the public.

Read more here: http://www.emaxhealth.com/1275/male-birth-control-pill-our-future

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The Best Pick Up Lines

Pick up Lines

Adam Lyons

Adam:
In this video I’m going to talk about the best pick-up lines. People always ask me what I think is the best pick up like. If I’m going to be completely honest with you, my personal best pick up line is actually a combination line that uses a number of different people.

I’m a big fan of mixing different psychological principles together when it comes to generating attraction and one of my favorites – and of course the most powerful – is preselection. My best pick up line involves this technique.

The first thing you do is identify who you think are the hottest girls in the bar. At that point, I’ll walk to a girl I think is one of the hottest while another girl I think is equally hot is in the nearby vicinity. If this sounds a little bit complicated, it’s because it is! But it really is one of my most powerful techniques.

I then will move next to the girl I’m not that interested in but who I still think is pretty hot and I’ll say t her, “Hey; tell me three interesting things about yourself. Because I often find when I meet people in a bar,  they don’t often have much interest in things going on; but I can see you look like somebody who’s maybe got something interesting happening in your life – so what would you say are three of the most interesting things that you do?”

All I’ve done here is justify it using one of Stanley Millgram’s principles why she should tell me something interesting about herself. She then hopefully is going to launch into an entire conversation that’s at least three items long, telling me about interesting things she does. However, none of that really matters to me because I’m not going to be looking at her while she’s saying this.

Instead, I’m going to lean back and make eyes with the girl that I’m actually interested in talking to – while this girl is leaning in my ear and telling me all the things that are interesting about herself. At some point when I lock eye contact with the girl I’m actually interested in, I’m probably going to mouth the words, “Save me!” or maybe even, “Help me!”

By mouthing the words ‘save me’ or ‘help me’, I’m making it clear to the other girl that I don’t want to be talking to the girl next to me. And when I’ve got that locked eye contact and hopefully a bit of a smile, I’m going to excuse myself from the girl that’s telling me these interesting things and walk up to the other girl. I’m then going to say to her, “Hey, listen; this girl’s been chewing my ear off for ages. Can you pretend you’re with me so that we can get away from her?” That way the girl can pretend that the two of us are very close. She can understand that I’ve got a lot of preselection from the other girl – and of course, it gives us an excuse to go away and talk for a while.

Now this is a situation that a lot of girls are going to be familiar with the other way around. They’ll often look at a guy they’re interested in talking to and get him to save the from a guy that they don’t want to talk to. By recreating this situation in reverse, the girl’s going to feel a connection to you because she’s probably been in that situation before and now that she’s on the receiving end of it, she’s feeling like it’s her position to return the favor to somebody else; but of course, you get the benefit of that return favor.

It’s a little it of a complicated technique but all the best things usually are. If you’re looking for other simpler ways of making this work or even an more of an in-depth understanding of why that’s so powerful, I’ve added some resources in the description below. All you have to do is click on those links and it will take you through all the information that you need.
That’s about it from me, see you next time.

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For those of you that are only interested in results, I’ll just break it down: Kissing 4 or 5 different girls, went home with ne girl, went to a house party with another couple of girls; there are threesomes going on… It’s all just a bit too much to take in right now, it’s getting emotional. But anyone who’s thinking of investing in this, certainly it’s the best money I’ve ever spent in my life.

 

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In this video you’re going to learn some of the best pick up lines from one of the worlds leading experts in attraction, dating coach Adam Lyons.

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Nature’s Secret for Getting Past 1st Base

What is nature’s secret to getting past first base? It all begins with the nose.

How to get past first base?

The nose is the second most important organ of the body when it comes to reproduction. The nose owes this great status to the phenomenon of pheromones.  Pheromones are airborne chemical messengers emitted by both males and females of a species that elicit responses in other animals of the same species.

Nature provides many examples of the pheromone phenomenon for us to study, such as male pigs. When they exhale males pigs breath contains a compound of pheromones called 5-alpha-androstenol which is a potent steroid that female pigs react very strongly to sexually.  It is because of this response in female pigs that they are used to hunt truffles which also happen to exude a chemical identical to 5-alpha-androstenol.

In humans the effect of pheromone exchange between the sexes is revealed physiologically and behaviorally.  It’s well known that women who live together eventually begin to sync up in their menstrual cycles.  Some studies also show that the simple smell of a man’s pheromone filled sweat can cause regulation of a woman’s irregular cycles. Scientists also believe that the pheromone communication between men and women is in part a cause for feelings of love, gut reactions, and choices in a mate.

A pair of minuscule pits within the nose are called the vomeronasal organ or VMO.  The VMO is composed of cells that, when exposed to pheromones, send chemical messages  past the thinking part of the brain to the hypothalamus or primal brain.  The hypothalamus controls metabolism, hormone production, fear, aggression, and sex drive.  So these messages can take us down the path of not so clear thinking which is the hallmark of falling in love.

This brings us back to nature’s secret of getting past first base, it’s all linked to the pheromones. Yes the armpits and groin are potent pheromone emitting regions of the body but it turns out the most potent region is the nasal sulcus or the area of skin between the upper lip and the base of the nose.  This small area releases a large amount of pheromones during a kiss.  So the secret of getting past first base may rest upon how well our pheromones smell to each other while on first base.

In a recent study using fruit flies, researches found that males and females responded more favorably to the younger smelling pheromones of both sexes even when these pheromones were applied to older fruit flies. This is because the the younger fruit flies pheromones smelled more sexually attractive and as the fruit flies age the chemical make-up of the pheromones change.

“We’re excited about these results because they may help us leverage our knowledge of the mechanisms that drive the aging process. This research indicates that the mechanisms important for aging also influence outward attractiveness,” says Pletcher. “Our hope is we can take a trait like attractiveness and study the connection between attractiveness and health.”

So the secret of getting past first base? Getting to first base and seeing how the other person smells!

 
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How to Flirt With Girls Using The Tickle Monster

This video illustrates the power and importance of doing something
to trigger interaction and that you make relationships start
to happen and develop when you understand the importance
of breaking rapport.

Make A Girl Laugh Without Telling Her Jokes Or Being Funny

I’m personally inviting you to watch a video demonstrating one of the most powerful ways you can use to make a girl laugh.

It doesn’t involve telling jokes. It doesn’t even involve being funny.

This simple and easy technique is tried, tested and proven to make almost any girl laugh.

You’re going to see it demonstrated on a real, live girl by an expert. That’s me. It’s going to look incredibly easy!

How to talk to girls EP1: Compliment Opener – PUA student gets Live Feedback

I want to make you good.
Really good.
I think I’ve worked out a way.

There are literally
Tens of thousands of guys
on this list, who want advice
because I get tons of emails every day
from people looking for dating advice.

And let’s be honest – theory is good
But Live Training is the best!

But how do you help 30,000 people
learn live training over the internet?

You can get free Live Feedback
on your infield game.

All you have to do is send me a video
of you practicing some game infield
and I’ll select the best ones
And give them a live commentary
With a list of all the improvements
you could try.

This is completely FREE of Charge!

Just send your videos to us at Help@attractionexplained.com

Watch the video for more details and to see the first one.

Let me help your game grow!

Send the video in ASAP!

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- Adam

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Valentine’s Day in Japan

Valentine’s Day is celebrated a little differently in Japan. It is traditionally divided into two holidays, Valentine’s Day and White Day.

Courtesy Chocolates

February 14th is still called Valentine’s Day but women are expected to give gifts to their sweethearts and their male aquaintances. Valentine’s is seen as a holiday when women can express their emotions through gifts, which are usually chocolates. Giri-choco are chocolates given to male friends, colleagues, bosses, and family. Giri in Japanese means ‘courtesy’ and these chocolates are handed out so everyone is included in the season’s festivities. Giri-choco are typically purchased where as the hon-mei or ‘chocolates of love’ for husbands,lovers, and boyfriends are typically handmade. It is not considered ‘true love’ if women buy chocolates for their sweethearts.

After all the chocolate giving of Valentine’s Day is over women then have White Day on March 14th to look forward to and on this day men are expected to return the gifts given to them on Valentine’s Day. The term sanbai gaeshi or ‘triple the return’, is often cited as the rule for giving gifts on this holiday. Often white chocolate, jewelry, lingerie, and marshmallows are given as gifts. White Day was first celebrated in 1978. It was started by the National Confectionery Industry Association as an “answer day” to Valentine’s Day on the grounds that men should pay back the women who gave them chocolate.

Seems like the United States isn’t the only country capitalizing on holidays!

 
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Dating Advice

Dating Advice

Adam Lyons

 

In this video, I’m going to give you some serious dating advice. Whenever you’re looking for advice on what to do o a date, you tend to get bombarded with different people giving you things like make sure you wear aftershave or make sure you dress well, whatever the different advice is. But  at the end of the day, I think the number one question that most guys want to ask (and even most girls) is when it okay to have sex with the other person? Let’s just cut through it – at the end of the day, is it okay to have sex on the first night and if not, when should you have sex?

 

In my opinion, I try to never go for sex on the first night. I find that there are so many connotations attached to it like re we just using each other? Is this serious? Does this mean he doesn’t respect me or does this mean I don’t respect him? or whatever the situation is.

 

In my opinion, if you’re going to have sex when you first meet somebody, the best way to do it is morning sex. What I like to do when I first go on a date with somebody, we go out, we spend an entire day together; maybe we go back to my place ad then we go to bed – I make it clear that I’m not going to have sex with them that night. Instead what I get the girl to do is cuddle up in my arms and hold her for the evening.

 

What this does is it forms a really special bond between you and the other person. You’ve been holding her all night and you’re building up a massive level of comfort with the other person. Now at this point when you slowly wake up in the morning, it should be really natural to start cuddling up to one another, kissing each other and then escalating.

 

First thing in the morning, it’s a lot more natural to have sex. You haven’t had to worry about feeling a little bit tired from the night before or maybe feeling a little bit drunk if you two have gone out and partied the night before. Instead, you can have that nice, warm, cozy feeling that you tend to have in a relationship when you have morning sex.

 

So one of the easiest ways to make sure if your dates are going okay if you’re a guy looking to get laid on the very first night when you meet a girl is – don’t rush it and instead just wait for the morning. You usually tend to find that the girl’s much more agreeable to have sex in the morning and she doesn’t feel so bad about it because the connotation – as they say – is the same night. It doesn’t have that same affect in the morning.

 

So if I had to give you one big piece of dating advice, it would definitely be look for morning sex instead. The only think you have to look out for of course, is morning breath. But as long as you can put up with that, that’s okay.

 

That’s about it from me. If you do want some more dating advice, maybe things to be saying on a date or different places to take someone on a date, don’t worry about it; I’ve added some links below so you can click on to get some information or maybe things you should be saying or doing on the date itself.

 

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But after hours and hours of intense training I did with these guys, Adam Lyons and all PUA trainers here, man! The first night I did okay but the second night, I actually jumped from girl to girl; I did set to set and talked to all these girls and all of a sudden, things just blew up for me; I felt like it had opened up a whole new life.

 

I actually got laid n the second night. It was f**ig amazing; like, it hasn’t happened in two f**ing years, can you believe that? I attribute that to all these guys here, I know this stuff is real. Try it out, just try it for one week. It can change your life. It’s not the most important thing but every guy puts it away, you feel like you can do it later but man, some if you can really change and do something with your life. I’m telling you right now, I’m not bullshitting, this is f**ing real shit. Try it out.