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    Who is AFC Adam?

    For those who haven't heard of me, I managed to get cut together a few clips of me in field. 2007 was a crazy year for me and I've got high hopes for 2008. I have a fascination with understanding what drives us to be attracted to others and love seeing people ...

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  • Study Shows Love is More Powerful Than Sex!

    Study Shows Love is More Powerful Than Sex!

    New study by State University of New York-Stony Brook suggests the brain distinguishes the pursuit of love and sex as two separate emotions. Brain scans taken of a small group of men and women who were to love showed that the areas of the brain associate with romance and the areas ...

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  • AFC Adam Live Street Game Pick Ups

    AFC Adam Live Street Game Pick Ups

    These are clips of me doing a bunch of live demos on the different ways to open sets as part of a new programme I'm launching showing exactly how to game. www.attractionexplained.com/about-the-programs/understand-attraction/

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  • Can A Player Be Chivalrous?

    Can A Player Be Chivalrous?

    Remember before you found out that there was sort of a whole underworld of guys online learning about how to pickup women… back when you were an AFC who had no idea what the hell to do to get results? Remember how you used to act around women… catering to their ...

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  • Make A Girl Laugh Without Telling Her Jokes Or Being Funny

    I’m personally inviting you to watch a video demonstrating one of the most powerful ways you can use to make a girl laugh. It doesn’t involve telling jokes. It doesn’t even involve being funny. This simple and easy technique is tried, tested and proven to make almost any girl laugh. You’re going ...

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The Stayover

An evening in

Researcher Tyler B. Jamison, from University of Missouri has been studying a new category of relationship that she’s dubbed “Stayover”. It’s been observed mostly in adults from age 18 to 29 and is characterized by partners spending three or four nights a week at the home of their significant other on a long term basis.  The stayover is an alternative for the “traditional” cohabitation relationship.

According to the study these relationships form out of convenience and a drive to remain more independent. Stayover couples tend to not share finances or belongings or even keys to the other’s home.  In effect they behave more like guests in their partner’s home. These couples want the intimacy of spending nights at home without the commitment of marriage or family.

The long term stability of the arrangements and whether they morph into cohabitation has yet to be studied. For now it is another type of relationship to add to the new pantheon of relationships forming in western society today.
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How To Talk To Girls EP7 – Learn Dancefloor Game

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In this video you will see two guys using dance floor game to great effect.

You’ll also learn a simple breakdown you can use to attract women on the dance floor.

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Breaking Rapport is a bit of an underground technique because most guys have no idea how simple and important this one little step can be. The truth is that it can be one of the very most powerful and effective techniques you ever use.

Find out how to use breaking rapport to increase your dating success, get simple, solid techniques on how to get girls and arouse their interest in you. Very simply and easily transform the level of comfort and rapport you routinely achieve with women to a higher level.

Just click on this link www.AdamLyonsBreakingRapport.com to check it out right now and get your free 15-minute video demonstration! It will clarify a lot for you to see this techniques in actual practice.

Scientific Studies on the Importance of Touch

Recently research into non-verbal forms of communication have turned towards touch and what we convey through it.

Importance of Touch

What can touch convey?

Research shows that a compassionate touch from a doctor leaves patients with the impression of having stayed with the doctor twice as long as those untouched. The Touch Research Institute of Miami has found that even a short massage from a loved one can relieve depression, and pain; and in an experiment at DePauw University volunteers tried to convey certain emotions, with touch only, to a blindfolded stranger.  The recipients were able to discern eight distinct emotions by touch alone!

“We used to think that touch only served to intensify communicated emotions,” Dr. Hertenstein said. Now it turns out to be “a much more differentiated signaling system than we had imagined.”

Researcher Michael Kraus has led a study on the impact of touch on players in the National Basketball Association.  They studied the effect that frequency of touch during a game had on the team’s performance.  With few exceptions, good teams were touchier than bad ones!

If high fives and chest bumps do contribute to the success of teams on the court, it may be due to the fact that a warm touch can set off the release of oxytocin (yes the cuddle hormone!)  More scientifically this hormone creates a sense of trust and safety which reduces levels of the stress hormone cortisol.  With this reduction in cortisol the brain can focus on more problem solving activities and the body interprets this touch as supportive.

The same is certainly true of partnerships, and especially the romantic kind, so remember the next time you touch someone that you are increasing their sense of trust and safety.  Kino is an important part of every man’s game to cultivate!

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How To Talk To Girls EP6 – How to Film Yourself Infield

Just a quick video this week due to Halloween. Just wanted to answer one of the big questions y’all always ask!

Breaking Rapport is a bit of an underground technique because most guys have no idea how simple and important this one little step can be. The truth is that it can be one of the very most powerful and effective techniques you ever use.

Find out how to use breaking rapport to increase your dating success, get simple, solid techniques on how to get girls and arouse their interest in you. Very simply and easily transform the level of comfort and rapport you routinely achieve with women to a higher level.

Just click on this link www.AdamLyonsBreakingRapport.com to check it out right now and get your free 15-minute video demonstration! It will clarify a lot for you to see this techniques in actual practice.

How To Talk To Girls EP5 – Reduce Rejection

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In this video you will see one of the biggest causes for rejection that most people aren’t even aware is affecting them!

You’ll also get to see live infield footage from a night club with a student talking to a Kim Kardashian look alike.

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How To Talk To Girls EP4

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In this video you’ll see a guy using Old school PUA routines to great effect as he picks up and seduces a girl he meets on a park bench.

You’ll also see how slipping into interview mode can kill an interaction.

Remember if you want to get one of your videos featured here for some advice or even just to show off your skills, just follow the instructions in the video.

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To get even more dating advice, check out my 6-video DVD training series and book called Street Seduce. This program sells for $47, but right now it’s available to you as a complimentary digital download when you join my website! It contains the core building blocks of my entire approach to becoming exceedingly effective at making it with the opposite sex. Don’t miss this! Just enter your email address so I know exactly where to send the entire Street Seduce training package to you right away with my compliments.

Using Dogs as Openers

Day game openers can be more difficult to come up with for many guys. Where do you go to find women and how can you approach and open them in a setting where many women are busy doing daily activities?

Dogs as openers

Man's best "wing-friend"

In a survey done by the American Kennel Club, 58% of men said having a dog in tow was a guaranteed conversation starter and 46% of women said they would talk to anyone with a cute dog.

Whether you have a dog, are thinking about getting a dog, or can just borrow one from a friend they are a great way to get you out of the house and practicing your game.  Doing doggie friendly things like going to the pet store, hanging around the park or downtown will also expose you to more women that you have common ground with; pet lovers in general can talk ad infinitum on the subject.

Bash Dibra, renowned pet guru, teaches that dogs can be a man’s best ‘wing-friend’. She suggests letting your dog (or cat!) do the talking. Such as training your dog to bark at your type of woman when she walks by, and as she looks up to wonder at the strange behavior you can say “He thinks you should give me your number and he won’t stop till you say yes.” Dibra uses any kind of special trick that can catch the eye of a fair lady, like waving paws, or carrying notes in her ‘love-fetching’ training.

Not only will you be calmer and more confident in proximity to your furry friend but women will also feel more at ease around dogs and this offers you an opportunity to practice kino escalation.  You can show her where your dog likes to be pet by guiding her hand; you can hand her treats to feed Fido; you can show her the proper hand position to throw a Frisbee; and even if the two of you are just petting the dog together, the sense of touch and intimacy is increased.

So dogs are good at keeping us fit, relieving stress, keeping us full of love and laughter, and now they can help you practice your game!

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Science weighs in on creating lasting relationships

Everyone has felt the high peaks of emotions that come with a new relationship, everything feels so fresh and intense. As the romance progresses we begin to bond and form new rituals. With any luck these feelings gradually evolve into a comfortable attachment, a partnership.

Cuddling in Bed

The cuddle chemical oxytocin at work.

These are the three recognized states of a relationship which seem to drive us biologically. Lust puts us on the lookout for potential partners, romance narrows our attention to one person, and attachment ensures we remain with a mate long enough to begin a new generation.

“These three systems are expertly choreographed at the neurochemical level, each with attendant neurohormones,” contends Helen Fisher, a research anthropologist at Rutgers University in New Brunswick, New Jersey.

When a person experiences the unfamiliar, which can be exhilarating and frightening, dopamine and norepinephrine levels in the brain increase. These chemicals are linked to the reward center of the brain especially when something is pleasant.

As dopamine subsides, vasopressin and oxytocin, “cuddle chemicals” released during sex, kick in to help cement the bond and thus encourage the building of a family but, however nice oxytocin makes us feel it can’t compare to the exhilaration of dopamine.

Studies suggest that couples who engage in novel or exciting new activities together increase their levels of dopamine and thus strengthen their romance, which can help sustain a relationship over time.

So what are some new and exciting activities to do together?

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How To Talk To Girls EP3

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Once again were analyzing one of your videos and using it to identify how to talk to girls.

In this video you’ll discover what happens when you do a bad cold read, and how if you make a mistake it’s important to try a new tactic, rather than hitting the same one home time and time again.

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How To Talk To Girls EP2

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Urbanistgame from YouTube sent me a video to help him solve his sticking points, he’s got some great energy and desire to get good, but it appears he has one big sticking point holding him back.

You’ll learn some of the most important techniques when you want to learn hot to talk to girls, and a fresh tip for keeping a conversation fun and interesting using “Living legends”.

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