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In this video, I’m going to give you some serious dating advice. Whenever you’re looking for advice on what to do o a date, you tend to get bombarded with different people giving you things like make sure you wear aftershave or make sure you dress well, whatever the different advice is. But at the end of the day, I think the number one question that most guys want to ask (and even most girls) is when it okay to have sex with the other person? Let’s just cut through it – at the end of the day, is it okay to have sex on the first night and if not, when should you have sex?
In my opinion, I try to never go for sex on the first night. I find that there are so many connotations attached to it like re we just using each other? Is this serious? Does this mean he doesn’t respect me or does this mean I don’t respect him? or whatever the situation is.
In my opinion, if you’re going to have sex when you first meet somebody, the best way to do it is morning sex. What I like to do when I first go on a date with somebody, we go out, we spend an entire day together; maybe we go back to my place ad then we go to bed – I make it clear that I’m not going to have sex with them that night. Instead what I get the girl to do is cuddle up in my arms and hold her for the evening.
What this does is it forms a really special bond between you and the other person. You’ve been holding her all night and you’re building up a massive level of comfort with the other person. Now at this point when you slowly wake up in the morning, it should be really natural to start cuddling up to one another, kissing each other and then escalating.
First thing in the morning, it’s a lot more natural to have sex. You haven’t had to worry about feeling a little bit tired from the night before or maybe feeling a little bit drunk if you two have gone out and partied the night before. Instead, you can have that nice, warm, cozy feeling that you tend to have in a relationship when you have morning sex.
So one of the easiest ways to make sure if your dates are going okay if you’re a guy looking to get laid on the very first night when you meet a girl is – don’t rush it and instead just wait for the morning. You usually tend to find that the girl’s much more agreeable to have sex in the morning and she doesn’t feel so bad about it because the connotation – as they say – is the same night. It doesn’t have that same affect in the morning.
So if I had to give you one big piece of dating advice, it would definitely be look for morning sex instead. The only think you have to look out for of course, is morning breath. But as long as you can put up with that, that’s okay.
That’s about it from me. If you do want some more dating advice, maybe things to be saying on a date or different places to take someone on a date, don’t worry about it; I’ve added some links below so you can click on to get some information or maybe things you should be saying or doing on the date itself.
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