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-The best places to find a girlfriend.

-How to make a practical list of what your ideal girlfriend should be.

-How to fish for women!

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-Common dating pitfalls addressed through listener questions.

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Emotional Opposites Attract

It’s something we hear over and over again, “Opposites attract.”  Nothing can be more frustrating than when an emotionally giving types pairs up with a reserved type. Psychologists say we look for our opposites in partners to fill in the experiences we lack in our lives.

communicate your needs

In the psychology field, these different ways of relating are called “attachment style,” and they are partly learned and partly genetic. Amir Levine, a psychiatrist and neuroscientist at Columbia University in New York, identifies three types of attachment styles: Secure, Anxious and Avoidant. Secure people make up over half the population and are typically comfortable with intimacy.

Those with an Anxious attachment style, about 20% of the population, often worry about their relationship and whether their partner loves them. They typically are emotionally giving and love to show and receive affection. Those with an Avoidant attachment style, about 25% of the population, may love deeply, but they are uncomfortable showing it. Often, they rely on their partner to initiate a display of affection. Sometimes, they don’t even enjoy receiving expressions of love and may tend to minimize closeness with others.

So giving types are initially attracted to reserved types and vice versa because they are so different.  Givers find reserved partners intriguing and want to draw affection from someone who doesn’t show it easily and reserved types often want to be drawn out of their shells.  Over time though these two types can develop relationship problems.  The giver can start to seem needy so the reserved partner reacts by distancing themselves which makes the giver give more in an effort to gain back the affection.

The good news is that attachment style can change. Whether you and your partner are opposites or not as long as you both can communicate your needs and wants the relationship can flourish. Experts say couples need to tell each other what they want and be specific!

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The Couple that Games Together, Stays Together.

Researchers at Brigham Young University have linked online gaming with marital dissatisfaction.

"Just 15 minutes, I've almost beat this level..."

349 couples that had at least one partner who played an online multiplayer role playing game, such as World of Warcraft,were surveyed about their relationship satisfaction.

The results showed that spouses who lose the attention of their significant other to gaming are not happy with their marriages.  Of those surveyed 65 percent of spouses who don’t play video games said they fight with their partner who does about the habit, and 75 percent said their spouses habit has affected their marriage for the worse.

Heade researcher Lundberg says “There’s a group of people out there we weren’t able to tap into. Interested spouses would say things like ‘I would love for my husband to take this survey, but there’s no way he’ll get off the computer long enough to take it.’ … You don’t want to take a survey on marital satisfaction when you’re on the verge of divorce.”

Before you get too anxious there is a ray of hope.  The survey found that couples who play together stay together.  74 percent of couples who played online multiplayer role playing games together found it had a positive impact on their marriage.

This confirms the idea that doing things together that both partners can enjoy helps to create bonding interactions that strengthen relationships.

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Shit Pick Up Artists Say

Shit PUAs Say

Dude, are you wearing that really cool affliction shirt? You know, the one with the flames?
Did she send you a text? You gonna text her back? Don’t text her back, bro, that’s so needy!
Hey man, you Iceman_ 21? Gmoney _232323

No, I’m not going out with her tonight, I have to write my lay report.
Dude, go open that chick. I’ll give you 10 bucksto open hat chick.
Dude, there’s this line, it’s money, I totally read it on a forum.
Go ask her if her nails are real…
It’s not eyeliner, it’s” guy-liner”  –  the chicks love it!
Ask her if her eyelashes are real…
Give me a sec, bro, I need to get into state.
Dude, ask her if her hair is real.
So this total HB 10, right? She sent me a text message; she wanted to go ice skating. What do you think I said? “Hell, no! Ice skating’s not alpha!”
I’m actually ranked the 4th best PUA n southern Cincinnati.
Ask her if her boobs are real.
Hey bro, are young to the sarge-athon tonight?
John? You can’t pick up chicks with a name like John, you won’t get anyone. From now on, you could be Sexual Six-pack.
I was with this Russian chick …
So last night I was with this model, right?
Last night, picked up a stripper…
Last night, right? I was with this cheerleader chick.
You know, I think for Halloween I’m going to be a Facebook wall.
How do you get a same-night lay? Dude, easy – three steps. One, go up to her. Two, be alpha. three, tell her what you want – bam! Pussy  every time.

Man, how can I NLP this chick into getting an abortion?

So I’m in venue right when I see this HB across the room. She’s spitting at me IOI’s. So I go up, I open, I transition, out of nowhere comes this AMOG with this DHV story and he ruined my SNL. So I did the only thing I could do .I gave him a DLV that I learned from RSD which totally LJBF’d him. And I got to set it up for an MLTR. Back at my place, she gave me some LMR which made me feel like a total AFC. Out of nowhere she started busting out some bad ASD when I was trying to bump her BT – do ya feel me?

You like this headband? Lock in prop.
One time I picked up Paris Hilton. Well, she gave me her Twitter.
Alright, man. Now I’m going to teach you the micro macro jumbo hyper multi-level hoop calibration theory.
Hey, who do you think is better, Style or Mystery?
Hey, do you think this nail polish makes me look gay?

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This was a video that I knew I just had to make. Following on the trend of the Shit people say series I wanted to play around with the idea of shit pick up artists say.

Feel free to add your own suggestions of lines we could have included in the comments below!

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Men Don’t Actually Think about Sex Every 7 Seconds

According to Ohio State University it is a myth that men think about sex all day every day.

"Has it been 7 seconds yet?"

The research they’ve been doing into the subject shows that men do think about sex more than women but they also think about eating and sleeping more than women. Researches had students complete questionnaires about the frequency of their thoughts about sex, eating, and sleeping for a week.  The findings showed that on average women think about sex approximately 10 times a day, eating 15 times a day, and sleeping 8.5 times a day.  Men on average thought about sex 19 times a day, eating 18 times a day, and sleep 11 times a day.

Following the standard held view that men think about sex every seven seconds would mean they have 8,000 thoughts about sex while awake. This is an important finding that will help correct stereotypes about men.

Frequent thoughts about sex are more connected to how comfortable a person is with their own sexuality than than what gender they are.

The study also found that women who are more concerned with social acceptance were less likely to think about sex which may be linked to the idea that thinking about sex is not a typical expectation, or stereotype, for women.

Fisher, the head researcher of the study says that society has no real reason to believe men think about sex so much more than women. There has been no past research to show that men think about sex every seven seconds.

Read more on the article here

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Nature’s Secret for Getting Past 1st Base

What is nature’s secret to getting past first base? It all begins with the nose.

How to get past first base?

The nose is the second most important organ of the body when it comes to reproduction. The nose owes this great status to the phenomenon of pheromones.  Pheromones are airborne chemical messengers emitted by both males and females of a species that elicit responses in other animals of the same species.

Nature provides many examples of the pheromone phenomenon for us to study, such as male pigs. When they exhale males pigs breath contains a compound of pheromones called 5-alpha-androstenol which is a potent steroid that female pigs react very strongly to sexually.  It is because of this response in female pigs that they are used to hunt truffles which also happen to exude a chemical identical to 5-alpha-androstenol.

In humans the effect of pheromone exchange between the sexes is revealed physiologically and behaviorally.  It’s well known that women who live together eventually begin to sync up in their menstrual cycles.  Some studies also show that the simple smell of a man’s pheromone filled sweat can cause regulation of a woman’s irregular cycles. Scientists also believe that the pheromone communication between men and women is in part a cause for feelings of love, gut reactions, and choices in a mate.

A pair of minuscule pits within the nose are called the vomeronasal organ or VMO.  The VMO is composed of cells that, when exposed to pheromones, send chemical messages  past the thinking part of the brain to the hypothalamus or primal brain.  The hypothalamus controls metabolism, hormone production, fear, aggression, and sex drive.  So these messages can take us down the path of not so clear thinking which is the hallmark of falling in love.

This brings us back to nature’s secret of getting past first base, it’s all linked to the pheromones. Yes the armpits and groin are potent pheromone emitting regions of the body but it turns out the most potent region is the nasal sulcus or the area of skin between the upper lip and the base of the nose.  This small area releases a large amount of pheromones during a kiss.  So the secret of getting past first base may rest upon how well our pheromones smell to each other while on first base.

In a recent study using fruit flies, researches found that males and females responded more favorably to the younger smelling pheromones of both sexes even when these pheromones were applied to older fruit flies. This is because the the younger fruit flies pheromones smelled more sexually attractive and as the fruit flies age the chemical make-up of the pheromones change.

“We’re excited about these results because they may help us leverage our knowledge of the mechanisms that drive the aging process. This research indicates that the mechanisms important for aging also influence outward attractiveness,” says Pletcher. “Our hope is we can take a trait like attractiveness and study the connection between attractiveness and health.”

So the secret of getting past first base? Getting to first base and seeing how the other person smells!
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Valentine’s Day in Japan

Valentine’s Day is celebrated a little differently in Japan. It is traditionally divided into two holidays, Valentine’s Day and White Day.

Courtesy Chocolates

February 14th is still called Valentine’s Day but women are expected to give gifts to their sweethearts and their male aquaintances. Valentine’s is seen as a holiday when women can express their emotions through gifts, which are usually chocolates. Giri-choco are chocolates given to male friends, colleagues, bosses, and family. Giri in Japanese means ‘courtesy’ and these chocolates are handed out so everyone is included in the season’s festivities. Giri-choco are typically purchased where as the hon-mei or ‘chocolates of love’ for husbands,lovers, and boyfriends are typically handmade. It is not considered ‘true love’ if women buy chocolates for their sweethearts.

After all the chocolate giving of Valentine’s Day is over women then have White Day on March 14th to look forward to and on this day men are expected to return the gifts given to them on Valentine’s Day. The term sanbai gaeshi or ‘triple the return’, is often cited as the rule for giving gifts on this holiday. Often white chocolate, jewelry, lingerie, and marshmallows are given as gifts. White Day was first celebrated in 1978. It was started by the National Confectionery Industry Association as an “answer day” to Valentine’s Day on the grounds that men should pay back the women who gave them chocolate.

Seems like the United States isn’t the only country capitalizing on holidays!

 
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Valentine’s in Ancient Rome

Valentine’s Day didn’t exist during the time of ancient Rome but men still wrote love poems.

However they weren’t tender caring notes filled with gooey romantic declarations of love or even flattery, the Romans wrote more about the pain and discomfort of love.  Love was viewed as something that torments the lover more like a nightmare than a dream.

Barbara Gold, professor of the classics at Hamilton College in New York describes ancient love poems that call love a plague, and accuse love of making the writer ill.  “You would never go out today and find a a valentine that says “You’re like a plague, you set my bone marrow on fire.” She says.  Gold suspects the dark nature of the love poems relate to the sexual dynamics of the age. “It’s all about how they viewed women – women are a torment, women are a plague,” she said. “I think it’s because men were terrified of the power that women have, and they projected those feelings. It was the men who had more power in ancient Roman society. But any force that made them feel less in control and less powerful — such as a woman giving or withholding her love — could be very threatening.”

Romantic ideas of love were quite different in first century Rome, most marriages were arranged according to wealth and status and love was never taken into account, at least most people never expected to love their spouse.

Today’s culture allows for people to marry because of romance and mutual understanding because there is more of an equality in relationships and we aren’t under the strict social constraints of Roman culture.

So be glad you can choose who to have a relationship with!

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Women smell more attractive at different times of the month.

According to a study done by the Department of Anthropology at Charles University, Prague.  A woman’s scent is more attractive to men at certain times during her cycle.

Mysterious Pheromones

“We were interested whether armpit odor changes across menstrual cycle” said study author Jan Havlieek.  To test this theory a group of women wore absorbent pads under their arms during their three different monthly phases.  During this period the women did not wear perfumes, or deodorants, eat spicy foods, smoke, drink, or use hormonal medications as these would effect the scent molecules given off.

A woman’s 28 day cycle includes three different monthly phases and begins on the first day of menstruation, when blood and tissue are shed from the womb.  The next phase is the follicular phase when the egg grows and becomes ready to implant in the uterus.  The fertile phase begins when the egg is released from the ovaries and travels towards the uterus to be fertilized (or not).

The study found that men find women’s odors during the second phase, the follicular phase, the most attractive, and subtle.  The least attractive scents for men came from women during the menstruation phase.

The study also found that the attractiveness of a woman’s face changes during the different phases.  Men again found a women’s face more attractive during the follicular phase as opposed to the menstruation and fertile phases.

Read more here: http://www.livescience.com/553-woman-smells.html

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Valentine’s Day or Divorce Day?

According to a new study Valentine’s Day has increasingly become a day of divorce in this country.  

The data was compiled by Avvo.com, a site similar to yelp except that lawyers and MD’s are rated according to the service they provide.  Avvo.com found  that divorce filings increase by 40 percent and the number of questions regarding divorce increase 36 percent during Valentine’s Day, this compared to the previous 6 months!

Kelly Chang (divorce lawyer) attributed this increase to two groups of people: those who finally follow through on their New Year’s resolution to be single, and those who are waiting to see if Valentine’s Day will magically bring to the surface new behavior in their spouse.

Read more here

Obviously, many people still split up despite the supposed Holiday of Love. If you want advice on how to navigate the tricky waters of Valentine’s Day subscribe to AFCAdamLondon on youtube.
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