Your Balls

I’m walking down the street this morning in Santa Monica heading to the American Film Market to meet with a film company I’m talking to about a show I’m pitching. When all of a sudden I notice a cute girl walking in the same direction.

She’s got short black hair with dark red highlights, long legs that are covered by her patterned tights and a short mini-skirt.

And I’m wondering to myself, “should I talk to this girl?” I mean. It’s not like I’m single.

Heck, I get laid a few times a day. I don’t need to bother talking to this girl. It would be a lot easier to just walk by, keep listening to my Pandora station and head on to my meeting.

But I remember something.

I’ve got balls.

And I like them.

I approach her, not because I want to get laid, not because I want a girlfriend. I approach her because that’s where my balls come from, and I don’t want them to go away.

The more you practice the better you get at approaching and talking to girls. Once I started talking to her, the conversation flowed easily, we walked for about 5 minutes before we “realized” we were both going to the same place. (She “realized.” I knew it for a fact, as she was too cute to just be randomly walking in the same direction as an international film market.)

The three things I wanted to make you aware of are:

1) It turns out this girl works at the exact company I had scheduled a meeting with. Coincidence or not, it wouldn’t have happened if I didn’t approach. My 10 minute meeting became a two hour one with the CEO as a result of the girl talking me up.

2) I approach because I want to maintain my skill of approaching, not to get a girl. In this way I’m completely outcome independent. I approach for the sake of approaching.

3) By repeatedly doing that which scares others, I maintain my confidence (testicles) and ensure I’ll never be afraid to meet a girl (or potential business client) again.

Start approaching. And if you are afraid of approaching due to wondering how to keep the conversation going once you start, watch this video

http://attractionexplained.com/how_to_keep_the_conversation_going/

Adam

 

Two simple words that women are interested in

Want to know the magic phrase to get women intrigued, interested, and attracted? There are just two simple words that women are interested in knowing about you: Be confident.

What many men don’t realize is that it’s not the lines, words, or jokes you say to women; it’s the energy you put into the things you say to a woman. If you come across with confidence and sex appeal through your body language, voice, demeanor, and overall presentation, a woman will find you far more appealing than someone less confident, even if you’re talking about something she isn’t necessarily interested in. Being confident will earn you more respect from any self-respecting woman.

Think about your intention and motivation in meeting women. Are you looking to hookup with someone or are you looking for a lasting relationship? The energy you give off is what you will get back in return. Think of this as the law of attraction.

Don’t try to over-impress a woman. Be relaxed, be natural, be yourself. Having the confidence to exhibit a laid back disposition will score you way more points than falsely selling yourself to a woman who is looking for honesty and sincerity.

Here’s another thing to remember: Everyone has insecurities. You don’t have to hide these things because we’re all human. You just have to find a way to balance your insecurities while still showing women that you are strong and can carry yourself well.

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Expose your positives

Here’s a simple way to pick up a woman with confidence: When talking about yourself, keep it positive. Stick to your best attributes and the interests you’re most passionate  and knowledgeable about. “Give the press-release version of you,” says Kate Wachs, Ph.D., a psychologist and author of Relationships for Dummies. Telling a woman everything good about your life shows her that you think you are worthwhile person to get to know, which will make you a more attractive mate to her. Also, keep it real and honest. Don’t over-inflate yourself, and don’t tell lies.

To get more dating advice, check out my 6-video DVD training series and book called Street Seduce. This program sells for $47, but right now it’s available to you as a complimentary digital download when you join my website! It contains the core building blocks of my entire approach to becoming exceedingly effective at making it with the opposite sex. Don’t miss this! Just enter your email address so I know exactly where to send the entire Street Seduce training package to you right away with my compliments.

Scientific Studies on the Importance of Touch

Recently research into non-verbal forms of communication have turned towards touch and what we convey through it.

Importance of Touch

What can touch convey?

Research shows that a compassionate touch from a doctor leaves patients with the impression of having stayed with the doctor twice as long as those untouched. The Touch Research Institute of Miami has found that even a short massage from a loved one can relieve depression, and pain; and in an experiment at DePauw University volunteers tried to convey certain emotions, with touch only, to a blindfolded stranger.  The recipients were able to discern eight distinct emotions by touch alone!

“We used to think that touch only served to intensify communicated emotions,” Dr. Hertenstein said. Now it turns out to be “a much more differentiated signaling system than we had imagined.”

Researcher Michael Kraus has led a study on the impact of touch on players in the National Basketball Association.  They studied the effect that frequency of touch during a game had on the team’s performance.  With few exceptions, good teams were touchier than bad ones!

If high fives and chest bumps do contribute to the success of teams on the court, it may be due to the fact that a warm touch can set off the release of oxytocin (yes the cuddle hormone!)  More scientifically this hormone creates a sense of trust and safety which reduces levels of the stress hormone cortisol.  With this reduction in cortisol the brain can focus on more problem solving activities and the body interprets this touch as supportive.

The same is certainly true of partnerships, and especially the romantic kind, so remember the next time you touch someone that you are increasing their sense of trust and safety.  Kino is an important part of every man’s game to cultivate!

To get more dating advice, check out my 6-video DVD training series and book called Street Seduce. This program sells for $47, but right now it’s available to you as a complimentary digital download when you join my website! It contains the core building blocks of my entire approach to becoming exceedingly effective at making it with the opposite sex. Don’t miss this! Just enter your email address so I know exactly where to send the entire Street Seduce training package to you right away with my compliments.