Easy topic for sexual escalation

Fifty Shades of Grey is a 2011 erotic novel by British author E. L. James. Set largely in Seattle, it is the first installment in a trilogy that traces the deepening relationship between a college graduate, Anastasia Steele, and a young business magnate, Christian Grey.

It is notable for its explicitly erotic scenes featuring elements of BDSM.

Fifty Shades of Grey has topped best-seller lists in the US, the UK and around the world. So it’s a good bet that whoever you’re talking to will have read the book or at least heard of it.  Bringing up the book is an easy way to steer the conversation into a sexual direction.  Getting a woman to think about sex is a big part of building attraction

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34 year old virgin becomes father of 82 babies

Mr. Ed Houben sleeps with about 15 childless women a month.  In the past 9 years he has sired 45 girls, 35 boys and has another 10 on the way. He is known as the most most successful baby-maker in the world. He has slept with women from all over the globe and currently his children live in Berlin, Holland, Italy, Spain, Belgium, France and even New Zealand.  What he does is completely legal and even though he is considered a professional baby-maker he provides his services for free (women do pay his travel expenses if they can’t come to him).

Why is Mr. Ed Houben so successful?  He began donating his sperm to clinics about 9 years ago but once he found out there was a market for natural conception he started offering his services for free on online forums where women go look for baby-makers.  He has an 80% success rate for impregnating women.  Included in the medical records he provides women (they too have to provide medical records that show their health) is a spermiogram which shows just how fertile Mr Ed Houben truly is.  A sperm count of less than 20 million shows that the potential donor doesn’t have a good chance of creating a baby.  It’s generally excepted that  sperm counts of 80 to 100 million provide the best chance of procreation.  Ed’s is near 100 million.

For all those women out there who desperately want a child Ed provides his service for free, a sperm bank generally charges $6000 to $7000.  That’s one way to get lucky!
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Onward With Sexual Escalation – The Art of Moving Forward

When studying game, you’ll come across a lot of small tips and techniques that will help you with women.  You’ll learn new ways to build comfort, great ways to approach women, style tips for looking your best, ways to build value…it goes on and on.  Most of this stuff is good but it isn’t all crucial – there’s “no connect the dots” element to game that will lead you directly to a woman’s bedroom if you get it all right.

But one place where you absolutely cannot cut corners is escalation.  If you never gather up the courage to push a great conversation with a woman to the next level, you simply won’t ever get anywhere.

The exceptions are in the cases that you are a good-looking guy, she is an aggressive woman, and there is alcohol involved, but even these moments will often fail if you don’t do some escalating of your own.  And it’s certainly no long-term strategy.

There is simply no compromising escalation – it’s a must.  For this reason, a few things to think about for those of you who are struggling.

The Biggest Obstacle is Most Likely You

Sexual escalation is a very natural thing.  If you’re struggling to move your interactions past the comfort stage, it’s most likely because you are simply not doing it.

This might be because you lack the courage.  It might be because you aren’t sure how.  It might be because you have been out of the game for a while.

Whatever the case may be, you’ll move past this hump a lot quicker if you just realize that the problem stems from something you are not doing.  You must escalate.  You must learn when the time is right.  You must make it sexual.

Learn to Back Off and Start Over

It’s helpful to think about escalation as a balancing act.  You have to constantly gauge her reaction and take notice when you’re pushing too far, too fast.  When this does happen and you find her getting cold or backing away, don’t assume you’ve completely lost out – you probably just haven’t built enough comfort, and in some cases she may just be self-conscious about what other people are thinking.

Back off a little bit, break rapport a little, and then and essentially start over again in the comfort building stage.  You’ll find you can do this throughout the night, moving causally through the separate stages of attraction until you get it right or realize it’s a lost cause.

There Are Certain Things That Nearly Guarantee You Can Kiss Her

Surely you’ve heard of IOI’s, or Indicators of Interest.

When a woman does something specific, like ask you for your name before you ask for hers, catches your eye (especially repeatedly) from across the room, or swats you playfully on the arm, you can take these as signs that she is interested in you.

If she does a few of these things, it’s almost guaranteed, and you’d be a fool to let the opportunity slip you by.

Well, similarly, there are certain things a woman would never let you get away with unless she was also ready to let you kiss her.  And knowing when a woman is ready to be kissed is obviously a huge advantage on your part.

For example, if she’ll let you put your hand on her stomach and let it linger there, she’d probably allow you to kiss her – women don’t just let any man do this.  If she allows your face to come within inches of hers while talking flirty and doesn’t back away or get awkward, she probably wants to kiss.  If you’re dancing and your faces end up pressed against each other for a while, kiss her.

Know these things and use them by trying them before transitioning into the kiss.  In this way, you can only kiss a woman when it’s certain to work.

Don’t Feel Like You Lost Just Because She Stopped You

At a certain level of the game and after a woman is definitely attracted to you, persistence is an important thing in a man.  There’s no shame in trying to push a situation sexually when you know she likes you, and there’s no shame in her holding you at a certain distance.

As a caveat, I’m in no way saying that you shouldn’t always stop when she tells you to.  Make it clear that she has the decision to do what she wants.

But if you made a move and she stopped you but is still having a great time and hanging out with you – remember, you guys just met – as well as being flirty, and possibly making out with you, she likes you.  In cases like this, she just isn’t ready for sex (or whatever) yet and may want to wait for a certain amount of time to have passed so she can feel good about herself.  Try again later.

Don’t be needy.  Don’t be desperate.  But do be a persistent man who goes for what he wants.

Escalate.
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Is Your Comfort-Building Being Sabotaged By a Lack of Conversational Skills?

Many men who struggle to build comfort with the women they meet simply do so because they lack conversational skills – or at the very least, they lack conversational skills when talking with women.  They’ll walk into a nightclub and easily slip into conversation with a great-looking girl standing next to them at the bar, but as the banter starts, they suddenly find themselves at a loss of words.  Or the girl loses interest in what they are saying and subtly excuses herself to move on. 

It’s simply impossible to build comfort if you can’t find things to talk about with women.

A conversation must be moved along by having conversational skills.  But does that mean you’re doomed if you don’t have the gift of gab?  Not at all.  You just need to do a little prep-work first.  Let’s have a look at improving your blabbing skills so you can keep the conversation going.

The Trivial is Your Friend

A lot of men – especially the ones that struggle to meet women – aren’t really too fond of trivial conversation.  They feel that any discourse between two people should have some honesty and integrity behind it.  That conversations should be meaningful and intelligent.  Sigh.

Look, you’re not debating health care here, and women, who are so much more socially intelligent than most of us, figured out a long time ago that at the most basic level every human interaction starts out on a trivial level.  Because of this, many of them have learned to banter and have fun with trivial subjects of conversation.

Now, don’t confuse this with talking about the mundane.  Just because something is trivial and doesn’t matter a whole lot on the big scheme of things doesn’t mean it can’t be interesting and fun.  And it should be.

If you’re prepared and adept at turning almost anything into a conversation, you’ll have no problem keeping it going.

Learn to Grab Onto Threads

These so-called “trivial” subjects aren’t straws you have to grasp for – they’re actually presented in most conversations as a run of course.  Notice that when you’re talking with someone they’ll often hang bait in their conversations.  They’ll end a sentence with a reference to another subject or open up transitions for you.

It’s like they’re standing back, holding open a door, and saying, “Here you go.  Here’s something you can talk about.”

You should take this bait – this is the natural flow of conversation.  Don’t be the guy who spends the whole conversation focusing on the one commonality you had when you first started talking.

Saying Stupid Stuff Just Happens

Not everything you say will be perfect.  Not every joke will be funny.  People say stupid things all the time, and you’ll notice that even hot, social women say a lot of stupid things for the simple reason that they talk more than you do.  And no one holds it against them.

Conversation is not meant to be perfect, but it should move.  It should just keep growing.  Don’t think too much about everything you say, and if you say something dumb or uninteresting, just move forward.

Forget Your Goal for a While

Women are always on edge when they meet new men, and this is one of the reasons we struggle to build comfort with them.  They often assume almost all men have ulterior motives (often true) – not to mention that they assume some men are even dangerous (unfortunately, sometimes true as well).

So while it’s fine to have an ulterior motive for talking to a beautiful woman (you after all, human), you’ve got to at least mask that in the beginning.  Don’t just walk up with a predatorial stare and try to jump down her throat.

As the conversation unfolds, push your “goal” away for a while.  It’s hard for a man to do that – we always feel a need for purpose.  But if you just focus on having a great time and talking with a new, interesting person you’ve met, true comfort will build itself.  Eventually, you’ll have to escalate if you want to go further, but put that on the back burner for a bit.

Learn to Love Talking to Everyone

The best way I know to get better at talking with attractive women is to get better at talking with everyone else.  Start practicing your art of the trivial everywhere you go.  The supermarket.  The bank.  The men’s room (preferably not at the urinals).

Practice joking around with people too.  Don’t feel like you’re being annoying – instead make people’s day by shaking them up a little, highlighting a humorous observation about the world around you, and sharing a laugh.  The people surrounding you in the everyday world are people just like you.  Go ahead and connect with them.

As time goes by, you’ll become much more adept at making small talk with people beyond asking them their name, occupation, and hometown.  And the more comfortable you get with that, the easier it will be to converse and eventually establish comfort with the women you meet.  And it will be more natural.

Now get out there and do some talking!

 

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Online Dating Services

According to a report published by Jupiter Research online dating sites are projected to increase from $900 million of revenue in 2007 to $1.9 billion in 2012.

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In this video we’re going to talk about how to pick girls. Now I think a lot of guys

are inhibited and scared when it comes to actually going up and picking up

women. It seems like this massive hurdle that they just can’t get over and that

women are these strange creatures that it’s really difficult to get a relationship

with.

The truth is, women aren’t against you. In fact, there are just as many girls out

there looking for guys as there are guys looking for girls. The problem is, most

girls won’t make that initial approach. So instead they just kind of stand around

or hang out with their friends being awkward, hoping that a guy will come up and

approach them.

Now it’s true that there are sometimes girls in those groups that when a guy

approaches, she’s just not that interested and she gets rid of him. But it’s also

true that sometimes when a guy approaches, the girl just doesn’t know how to

keep the conversation going. She gets shy and she gets awkward and because

she’s being silent, the guy assumes she isn’t interested and he walks away.

If you really want to learn how to pick up girls, the number one and the best way

to guarantee that you improve your dating life with girls is to actually do it – just

start approaching them. If you just increase the amount of girls you speak to on

a daily basis, your success rate and your chance of picking up girls is going to

drastically improve.

If you think about it, say you were one of the worst guys in the world when it

came to attracting women and you had, say, only a 1% success rate. That

means that within a hundred days or just over three months, you would still have

managed to attract a girl that you were interested in picking up. So just a 1%

success rate gives you one girl every three months or so… which works out to be

4 girls a year, which works out within three years to be 12 girls. And considering

that the average guy only ends up dating about 7 girls in his lifetime, it means

that with just a 1% success rate, you would be the average male on the planet –

yes, it really is that easy.

But the truth is, most people actually have a great learning curve. If you just go

out there on a regular basis and make it a point to talk to maybe 2 or 3 girls a

day, you’re probably going to find that within 3 months your success rate has

actually skyrocketed. Within 6 months it’s going to be up even further.

If I was to tell you that when I first started doing this I was really bad when it

came to talking to girls and yet within a year I was getting results that more

people can’t even believe that they’d be capable of getting; it shows you just how

fast you could improve.

So my number one tips when it comes to picking up girls is actually to just go out

there and do it! Even if the only thing you’re saying is, “Hi, nice to meet you” and

swapping names. Just that alone is probably going to significantly increase your

results.

Now it’s true that maybe you’re watching this and maybe you do already do that

and you’re looking for some other techniques; maybe some different things you

could say or maybe even learning how to transition past that very first initial line,

or maybe you’re just looking at some great date places and some easy ways to

bring a girl back to your place.

If you’re interested in any of these topics and a bunch of others, I’ve added some

links below with some resources for where you can find more information about

how to generate that kind of attraction and how to control the situations and of

course, how to pick up girls more easily. So feel free to check out the links below

with the other resources and see you in the next video.

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