A simple trick to get ugly kids

Heya man,

Yesterday I got a Thai Massage. It was one of the best massages I’ve ever had, one of those ones where the girl folds your body in on itself. In fact she was so good I mistook a few of her techniques for Jiu-Jitsu moves and almost tapped out a few times.

But the girl was short, Asian and plump and it reminded me of something.

This is one of those things I normally only share with my friends and private students, but today I thought I’d share it with you.

Before I got good at game, pretty much all my girlfriends looked the same.

They were short, Asian, plump and into comic books, just like my masseuse (I can only assume about the comic books).

Now, granted, I could count all the girls I dated on one hand, but even with this small data one thing was obvious.

My kids DNA was already set.

Think about it. The children you have will be as pretty as the girls you date. (Mixed with half of you)

This meant that before I started learning how to attract hot girls my children would all be a mix of me and a Short Plump Asian girl.

These are things you don’t think of when you’re just trying to meet a girl that likes you, but the reality is this is your legacy you’re messing with.

The simple trick to getting ugly kids is to date ugly girls.

If I’d never learnt this skill set… I’d be dating ugly girls and have ugly kids. Fact.

Now maybe you don’t want kids, or maybe you’re one of those people that doesn’t care about how good their kids look. (I see the parents of those children when I walk through Walmart)

But if you do care, if you want gorgeous children, then you should start dating girls that will give you the kind of children you may want.

Dating hot girls isn’t as easy as we’d like though and sometimes it can be hard finding the right things to say. Check out this video and learn a simple way to keep a conversation going.

http://attractionexplained.com/how_to_keep_the_conversation_going/

Adam

THIS Is the Reason I’m Good with Sexy Women

Heya man,

Today I’m going to tell you the exact reason why I’m good with women.

I have a quality that drives me.

It’s a quality that almost every single guy on the planet has. The difference is I have more of it.

I first realized I had this quality when I was sitting in a room of guys who were all students of seduction and dating, myself included. We were all just like you, looking to get better with women.

Picture this: it’s 3 o’clock in the morning and there are 5 of us guys sitting around a room after a night of going out and meeting women. Obviously none of us had met a girl that night and most of the guys were discussing heading home when I first realized I was different.

Adam: Why don’t we go out and hit an after hours spot.
Guy 1: Adam, it’s 3 am I’m tired. Fuck it, we’re all tired, let’s just head home.
Guy 2: Yeah man, it’s not like we’re gonna meet any girls that are single at this time anyway.
Adam: You’re all kidding me right?
Guy 1: No seriously, it’s late, we can head out again tomorrow.
Guy 3: Yeah, I’m heading home.
Adam: Don’t you guys wanna get laid?
Guy 3: Yeah of course, but we’re tired now. We can do it tomorrow.

And that’s when it hit me. They all wanted to get girls, but I wanted it more.

I wanted to get laid more than any of the other guys in the room. (Except maybe Guy 4 who came with me)

This is the quality I have.

I like sex.

I like it a lot.

Heck, I have sex before I get up in the morning, have it before I go to bed, and try to fit it in somewhere in the middle of the day.

On roadtrips, I’m the kind of guy that will pull over at a restroom off the freeway to fit a quickie in. I’m not just after girls

to satisfy my ego, or to have sex with them occasionally as I see fit.

I want women all the time, always. I love being with them, interacting with them and having sex with them. And it’s that drive that made me good. I was going out all the time because I wanted to have sex with beautiful women.

Ask yourself something.

Do you want to have sex? Like, a lot of sex? With lots of beautiful girls?

Then why not put the effort in to go and get it, because countless people have proved that it doesn’t take a lot of practice to actually start getting good at this, you just have to start go out there and do it.

How do you move a mountain?

One rock at a time.

You should start by learning how to keep conversations going, at least that way you won’t run out of things to say once you’re talking to her. Here’s a link to a video showing you how to do that.

Adam

 

Number 1 Most Important Aspect of Game

Hey man,

I’ve been reading email after email of people who picked up my book 101 Ways to Break the Ice and I’m so happy you were able to use those lines right away. I would argue that the most important thing you can do to make a strong interaction, is be able to start it.

If you can’t start an interaction, you will never know what could have been. So if you are one of those guys who have been going out the past few days using those techniques I talked about, perfect! I bet you noticed a big change in how your interactions went when you approached quickly.

If you have not been going out and striking up conversations or if you don’t intend to, you can stop reading now. The rest of this letter won’t do you any good…

For those of you still reading I have some new questions for you:

What do you do once you start a conversation with a girl?

My short answer for this is one simple word that you should get tattooed somewhere on your body that you will see it every day.

Listen.

There are hundreds of different transitions to use to tie thoughts together and keep a good flow going. But they come off as very strange and boring when you aren’t actually listening and responding to what a girl is saying.

To hold a girl’s attention is also extremely important for an interaction. I have several techniques I teach for this, but the simplest one is to use eye contact.

You know that fear that you have that women can read your thoughts? They can!

Okay, not actually, but they think they can. If you aren’t looking at her in the eyes, she can’t make that connection to read your thoughts. That might sound like a good thing, but if she doesn’t think she can read your thoughts, she can’t trust you.

You need a woman to trust you, and feel comfortable talking to you.

Comfort and Rapport.

Without those things, you’re flirting will backfire, your teasing will hurt her feelings, and she will want to leave.Those two things are the very backbone of any interaction.

If you knew nothing of game besides how to approach quickly and build comfort and rapport, you would be able to make a whole lot of friends in a very short amount of time. You’d also get very successful at networking for business and other opportunities but that’s not the focus of what I teach.

In the reverse, if you were very good at breaking rapport (teasing, negging, flirting etc.) and awesome at qualifying and sexually escalating, but you didn’t know how to build comfort and rapport, you would be very sad and unsuccessful.

Trying to build sexual tension with a girl who doesn’t trust you and feel comfortable with you will always end badly. If you are getting blown out when you go for the number, kiss, or even getting her facebook, its probably because you need to work on this part of your game right now.

Comfort and Rapport.

So this is the big step to polish up. If you master the ability to build comfort and rapport, the later steps are much easier to correct if they start going sour. If you can build up comfort and rapport then every time you start to lose it in the interaction, you just quickly go back down a step and build it back up again!

If this is something that you are trying to work on, I go into a lot more and details about it in my How to Keep the Conversation Going program.

http://attractionexplained.com/how_to_keep_the_conversation_going/

I break everything down into smaller, easier to understand pieces. I also give a whole lot of my personal tactics that are extremely effective to quickly take an opener into a place of comfort to lock yourself in the set. I break down conversations into easy to remember formulas so that you will always have something to say.

I explain how to find and build instant commonalities with girls and I give a technique you can use step-by-step in case your mind goes blank and you need something powerful to talk about.

Once you’ve found your commonalities and you are ready to close, I break down several different techniques for getting a number close with minimal risk of her flaking out on you for the next time you get together.

I have this program packed with information that is absolute gold if you are working on mastering your conversation skills and you want to take your interactions farther than a greeting.

Again, if you want to see more about that program, click the link below.

http://attractionexplained.com/how_to_keep_the_conversation_going/

Once you have mastered holding a conversation, everything else moves a lot faster.

My advice to you, when you feel comfortable with your approach, you are ready to work on holding the conversation. You can use my techniques or not, but challenge yourself to see how long you can hold her conversation and keep things moving forward.

Record your interactions or you can write about them in detail afterwards. I strongly suggest recording them. You will hear subtle nuances that way and it will cause your brain to autocorrect for the next cold approach you try.

Nice work man,

Adam

 

Stop Your Brain From Cockblocking!

Hey man,

What is the best way to strike up a conversation with a woman?

Quickly.

That’s the best way.

If you are thinking too much before you do it, then your approach will simply not be as good as if you just walked up and said something earlier. Here is why:

When you see a girl, your brain makes several decisions and some of them are faster than others.

Fast Decisions:

Do I find her face attractive?
Do I find her body attractive?
Do I want to sleep with her?
Do I want to talk to her?

Slow Decisions:

Should I approach on her left or right?
Does she have a boyfriend? Is he here?
Is she here alone?
Who is going to see me if I get rejected?
What am I going to say to her?
What am I going to say to her?
What am I going to say to her?

Talking to a woman should not be that scary. It should not make you think that hard. If instead of thinking those things, you make your fast decisions and walk up and say ANYTHING to her, you will be much better at succeeding.

Yes, approaching a certain way will help make things go smoother.
Yes, if she has a boyfriend things could go sour.
Yes, if you are clever with your opening words, she will warm up to you faster.

BUT…

Using the time before you talk to a girl to think of those things is signing you up for failure.

These are things you work for before you go talk to girls, not while you are talking to them. If you want to work on your posture, do it at home so much you don’t have to think about it anymore.

If you are worried about her having a boyfriend, just stop. You never know what is going to happen so if you are worried about it, stop being worried about it.

Waiting for an ideal time is just an excuse to not talk to her.

If you are thinking of things to say to a girl, you should have done that at home. Work on your own lines and repeat them and practice some canned openers. Yes canned openers.

Natural game works better but if you are thinking of what to say, have canned openers you always use so you have something to fall back on.

If you missed out on it last time, here is the link I showed earlier in the week:

http://attractionexplained.com/101_ways_to_break_the_ice/

It’s 101 Ways to Break the Ice. I compiled the best things to say to break the ice with a girl. After reading it, it will keep you out of your head before you talk to girl. You will be able to open more girls faster which will improve your game much faster.

If you can’t think of anything to say, just keep walking to her. If you still can’t think of anything to say, you just use one of my lines I give you and trust it will land well. It will.

Again, check that out here:

http://attractionexplained.com/101_ways_to_break_the_ice/

Now practice turning off your slow decisions. Speed everything up. If you see a cute girl, stop thinking, start approaching. That is how to get good fast. Stop thinking so much.

Do your work at home and when you go out, leave your work at home. Everything you’ve worked on should come natural at that point that you don’t need to think about it. You don’t want to think about it.

It’s like thinking about your feet moving up the stairs. If you think about every muscle in your leg walking up the stairs and you focus on each one trying as hard as you can not to trip up the stairs. Your odds of tripping are much higher then.

Same with game. If you are thinking about what you are doing, your odds of messing up are higher.

Stop thinking about what you are doing and just enjoy the interaction, your odds of getting the girl are higher.

Cheers mate,

Adam

 

How to Be Better Than Mr. Douchebag

Hey man,

Do you know what is worse than not getting the girl?

Watching Mr. Douchebag walk away with her instead. Nothing is worse for your pride.

Name the Scenario:

  • You are at a party
  • Walking down the street
  • At a mixer
  • On the bus
  • In a coffee shop

And there she is.
You know who I’m talking about.

Your mind quickly looks over her and desperately searches for something to say to make you sound clever and fun.

You look over what she is wearing that you could comment about. You look around the room. You listen to the songs playing in the background. You need to find something, anything to talk about right now. Maybe when she walks past, she might lock eyes with you and give you a chance!

She doesn’t look up at you.

She must not have been looking to get picked up…

She is walking out the door and then here he comes: Mr. Douchebag!

“Damn girl, that dress is bangin!”
“Thanks.”
“You are welcome! Yo girl, I can’t let a fine ass woman like yourself walk past me without asking, what’s your number girl?”

He hands her his phone and she puts her number in.

She walks off, turns and smiles at Mr. Douchebag who smiles back and starts talking to “the next piece of fine ass” in the room.

Disgusting.

Why do girls put up with that? How does he attract anyone? Mr. Douchebag treats women like shit… and they respond.

Girls must like Douchebags…

WRONG!

Girls like guys who can walk up and say something to them without looking like they’ve been thinking forever to say something perfect to her.

The only guys that have walked up to talk to her in the past just happen to all be douchebags. Douchebags don’t care what they say or how it will affect her. They just say the douchiest thing that comes to their douchey mouth.

For the hottest women, they must think every man on earth is a douchebag. She’s probably considered lesbianism for years. The only guys she talks to are douchebags, so in the end who gets the girl? The least least douchey of the douchebags.

Soon every guy on earth will be a douchebag if nothing gets stopped. Here’s why:

If only douchebags talk to girls, how long is it before they have douchey sons who grow up to be the next generation of Mr. Douchebags. Meanwhile, all the nice guys die off thinking too much and unable to reproduce because of it.

I can’t stand it anymore! Please take my advice right now because this is important.

Make a list of things you can say to start a conversation. Tailor them to your environment and USE THEM. Use them when your brain goes stupid from seeing those long, beautiful legs.

If you say anything to her, ANYTHING, she gets a chance to meet a guy who isn’t a douchebag.

If you want the easy way of striking up a clever conversation, use MY LIST. I’ve compiled a list of 101 lines to use to break the ice when you can’t think of anything. Each of them is tailored to fit your needs.

After reading it, you’ll have a plethora of lines floating in your head and you’ll actually be able to say something to her… and it will be clever enough to keep her interested!

Check that out here: 

http://attractionexplained.com/101_ways_to_break_the_ice/

In the meantime, don’t let Mr. Douchebag get the girl.

I don’t want to live in a world full of douchebags.

I hate them.

Please help save the world.

Thank you,

Adam