The Gateway Drug to Intimacy

Hey man, listen to this,

I met a guy the other day that was a great seducer in almost every way.

He could approach, transition, form attraction and escalate with almost any girl he met.

Yet he had a problem

A huge freaking problem.

After sleeping with a girl she wouldn’t date him. She’d have sex with him once and then ignore his calls and texts.

Now, on one level I’m sure initially he thought this was great, he could get all the sex he wanted anytime he wanted. But eventually… He started to feel bad.

If you don’t know why… You need to read on.

He felt rejected.

Yep, all the sex in the world, and yet this guy feels rejected. Not for sex, but for him.

Think about it. When a girl rejects you on the open you can always justify it to your ego as the fact that she never really got to know you.

But once you’ve had sex with them, it’s a lot harder to justify that.

I mean, he’s had sex with them, and then they cut him out. Imagine what’s going on in his mind.

Did she hate the sex? Did he upset her? Was he boring?

All these things go through his mind, trust me this rejection is a lot worse than someone ignoring you after the approach.

So he asked me what the problem was.

And you would be surprised just how simple the answer was.

The girls still didn’t know him. His ability to escalate was so precise, his game so “tight” that he never bothered to make an actual connection with the girl. He skipped it all and just ran the sexual escalation techniques I’d shown him.

The problem is that people get so fixated on trying to have sex that they miss the fact that they’re talking to an actual person, and not just a “masturbation box.”

And this is the number one reason why guys get rejected, anytime from the opening line to just after sex. Good conversation is the easiest way to get someone to want to be intimate with you. It’s like a drug, people get addicted to good conversation.

The people you enjoy being with the most are probably the people who you have the best conversations with, and if they suddenly left your life you would be sad. You would suffer from withdrawals from having them leave your life.

This is how girls should feel. When they talk to you, the conversation should be so genuine and good that they can’t be without it.

They crave it.

And when they crave it, it will turn into a desire, a desire to be with you, to want to be with you, and be intimate with you.

The main reason women want to be with me is not because I have a huge dick, it’s not because I’ve got a great body (because neither of those things are true). The reason women want me is because I’m good at conversation.

I know how to hold an engaging conversation that keeps someone interested in talking to me.

And from there the rest is easy.

Check out this link and see what happens when you combine great conversation skills with the ability to talk to girls.

http://attractionexplained.com/how_to_keep_the_conversation_going/

Adam

 

THIS Is the Reason I’m Good with Sexy Women

Heya man,

Today I’m going to tell you the exact reason why I’m good with women.

I have a quality that drives me.

It’s a quality that almost every single guy on the planet has. The difference is I have more of it.

I first realized I had this quality when I was sitting in a room of guys who were all students of seduction and dating, myself included. We were all just like you, looking to get better with women.

Picture this: it’s 3 o’clock in the morning and there are 5 of us guys sitting around a room after a night of going out and meeting women. Obviously none of us had met a girl that night and most of the guys were discussing heading home when I first realized I was different.

Adam: Why don’t we go out and hit an after hours spot.
Guy 1: Adam, it’s 3 am I’m tired. Fuck it, we’re all tired, let’s just head home.
Guy 2: Yeah man, it’s not like we’re gonna meet any girls that are single at this time anyway.
Adam: You’re all kidding me right?
Guy 1: No seriously, it’s late, we can head out again tomorrow.
Guy 3: Yeah, I’m heading home.
Adam: Don’t you guys wanna get laid?
Guy 3: Yeah of course, but we’re tired now. We can do it tomorrow.

And that’s when it hit me. They all wanted to get girls, but I wanted it more.

I wanted to get laid more than any of the other guys in the room. (Except maybe Guy 4 who came with me)

This is the quality I have.

I like sex.

I like it a lot.

Heck, I have sex before I get up in the morning, have it before I go to bed, and try to fit it in somewhere in the middle of the day.

On roadtrips, I’m the kind of guy that will pull over at a restroom off the freeway to fit a quickie in. I’m not just after girls

to satisfy my ego, or to have sex with them occasionally as I see fit.

I want women all the time, always. I love being with them, interacting with them and having sex with them. And it’s that drive that made me good. I was going out all the time because I wanted to have sex with beautiful women.

Ask yourself something.

Do you want to have sex? Like, a lot of sex? With lots of beautiful girls?

Then why not put the effort in to go and get it, because countless people have proved that it doesn’t take a lot of practice to actually start getting good at this, you just have to start go out there and do it.

How do you move a mountain?

One rock at a time.

You should start by learning how to keep conversations going, at least that way you won’t run out of things to say once you’re talking to her. Here’s a link to a video showing you how to do that.

Adam

 

Stop Your Brain From Cockblocking!

Hey man,

What is the best way to strike up a conversation with a woman?

Quickly.

That’s the best way.

If you are thinking too much before you do it, then your approach will simply not be as good as if you just walked up and said something earlier. Here is why:

When you see a girl, your brain makes several decisions and some of them are faster than others.

Fast Decisions:

Do I find her face attractive?
Do I find her body attractive?
Do I want to sleep with her?
Do I want to talk to her?

Slow Decisions:

Should I approach on her left or right?
Does she have a boyfriend? Is he here?
Is she here alone?
Who is going to see me if I get rejected?
What am I going to say to her?
What am I going to say to her?
What am I going to say to her?

Talking to a woman should not be that scary. It should not make you think that hard. If instead of thinking those things, you make your fast decisions and walk up and say ANYTHING to her, you will be much better at succeeding.

Yes, approaching a certain way will help make things go smoother.
Yes, if she has a boyfriend things could go sour.
Yes, if you are clever with your opening words, she will warm up to you faster.

BUT…

Using the time before you talk to a girl to think of those things is signing you up for failure.

These are things you work for before you go talk to girls, not while you are talking to them. If you want to work on your posture, do it at home so much you don’t have to think about it anymore.

If you are worried about her having a boyfriend, just stop. You never know what is going to happen so if you are worried about it, stop being worried about it.

Waiting for an ideal time is just an excuse to not talk to her.

If you are thinking of things to say to a girl, you should have done that at home. Work on your own lines and repeat them and practice some canned openers. Yes canned openers.

Natural game works better but if you are thinking of what to say, have canned openers you always use so you have something to fall back on.

If you missed out on it last time, here is the link I showed earlier in the week:

http://attractionexplained.com/101_ways_to_break_the_ice/

It’s 101 Ways to Break the Ice. I compiled the best things to say to break the ice with a girl. After reading it, it will keep you out of your head before you talk to girl. You will be able to open more girls faster which will improve your game much faster.

If you can’t think of anything to say, just keep walking to her. If you still can’t think of anything to say, you just use one of my lines I give you and trust it will land well. It will.

Again, check that out here:

http://attractionexplained.com/101_ways_to_break_the_ice/

Now practice turning off your slow decisions. Speed everything up. If you see a cute girl, stop thinking, start approaching. That is how to get good fast. Stop thinking so much.

Do your work at home and when you go out, leave your work at home. Everything you’ve worked on should come natural at that point that you don’t need to think about it. You don’t want to think about it.

It’s like thinking about your feet moving up the stairs. If you think about every muscle in your leg walking up the stairs and you focus on each one trying as hard as you can not to trip up the stairs. Your odds of tripping are much higher then.

Same with game. If you are thinking about what you are doing, your odds of messing up are higher.

Stop thinking about what you are doing and just enjoy the interaction, your odds of getting the girl are higher.

Cheers mate,

Adam