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How to pick up women

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In this video we’re going to talk about how to pick girls. Now I think a lot of guys

are inhibited and scared when it comes to actually going up and picking up

women. It seems like this massive hurdle that they just can’t get over and that

women are these strange creatures that it’s really difficult to get a relationship

with.

The truth is, women aren’t against you. In fact, there are just as many girls out

there looking for guys as there are guys looking for girls. The problem is, most

girls won’t make that initial approach. So instead they just kind of stand around

or hang out with their friends being awkward, hoping that a guy will come up and

approach them.

Now it’s true that there are sometimes girls in those groups that when a guy

approaches, she’s just not that interested and she gets rid of him. But it’s also

true that sometimes when a guy approaches, the girl just doesn’t know how to

keep the conversation going. She gets shy and she gets awkward and because

she’s being silent, the guy assumes she isn’t interested and he walks away.

If you really want to learn how to pick up girls, the number one and the best way

to guarantee that you improve your dating life with girls is to actually do it – just

start approaching them. If you just increase the amount of girls you speak to on

a daily basis, your success rate and your chance of picking up girls is going to

drastically improve.

If you think about it, say you were one of the worst guys in the world when it

came to attracting women and you had, say, only a 1% success rate. That

means that within a hundred days or just over three months, you would still have

managed to attract a girl that you were interested in picking up. So just a 1%

success rate gives you one girl every three months or so… which works out to be

4 girls a year, which works out within three years to be 12 girls. And considering

that the average guy only ends up dating about 7 girls in his lifetime, it means

that with just a 1% success rate, you would be the average male on the planet –

yes, it really is that easy.

But the truth is, most people actually have a great learning curve. If you just go

out there on a regular basis and make it a point to talk to maybe 2 or 3 girls a

day, you’re probably going to find that within 3 months your success rate has

actually skyrocketed. Within 6 months it’s going to be up even further.

If I was to tell you that when I first started doing this I was really bad when it

came to talking to girls and yet within a year I was getting results that more

people can’t even believe that they’d be capable of getting; it shows you just how

fast you could improve.

So my number one tips when it comes to picking up girls is actually to just go out

there and do it! Even if the only thing you’re saying is, “Hi, nice to meet you” and

swapping names. Just that alone is probably going to significantly increase your

results.

Now it’s true that maybe you’re watching this and maybe you do already do that

and you’re looking for some other techniques; maybe some different things you

could say or maybe even learning how to transition past that very first initial line,

or maybe you’re just looking at some great date places and some easy ways to

bring a girl back to your place.

If you’re interested in any of these topics and a bunch of others, I’ve added some

links below with some resources for where you can find more information about

how to generate that kind of attraction and how to control the situations and of

course, how to pick up girls more easily. So feel free to check out the links below

with the other resources and see you in the next video.

Testimonial 1:

The most valuable thing that I got out of it was the infield feedback that I got

directly from Adam and Amanda because I’d never gotten a kiss from a girl ever

before and then I was having my first make out ever on the second night so it

was incredible. And that was all thanks to Adam’s live feedback.

Testimonial 2:

I’ve never been able to get a one night stand and I’ve wanted that; I’ve really

wanted it so that was kind of my main goal here. Amazingly enough I actually got

it during the boot camp which was amazing. it transformed my whole way I think

about game.

 

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How to Approach Women

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How to Approach Women
In this video we’re going to be talking about how to approach women. Now when you’re walking down the street, you’re going to see a lot of beautiful girls and you’ve probably wondered, ‘how do I go about starting that conversation?’ One of the key things you have to do is actually get them to stop so they want to talk to you and the mistake that most people make when they try and talk to somebody in the street is they don’t give them enough time to slow down.
Just like a car, a human being has a stopping distance. When you first lean out to go and talk to somebody, you have to give them enough time to slow down their pace so they can actually stop and hear you. Otherwise, what happens is that as they slow down they go past you, and at that point it’s easier for them to keep walking than it is for them to turn around and start talking to you.
That stopping distance is about 12 feet. So when you first start to approach somebody walking towards you on the street, you want to make sure you’ve got about a 12-foot distance between you before you start actually having a conversation with them. Then start that initial conversation usually just by opening your hands and saying whatever it is that you want to say, and that gives you a nice 12 feet so both of you can slow down and you’ll probably find that you stop comfortably right in front of each other.
Now the alternate situation you might find yourself in is when the girl that you’re interested in talking to is actually in front of you. At this point, you never want to approach somebody from behind. Approaching from behind doesn’t let them see you coming and it can freak them out which can actually make them feel a little bit awkward when you go and talk to them.
The easiest way to approach somebody from behind is – believe it or not – to walk in front of them. Take the time to just take two or three steps in front of the person then turn around over your shoulder and start the conversation from there. You don’t have to worry about stopping distance so much this time as you’re both already walking in the same direction; so they don’t have to worry about slowing down and going past you, since as you guys slow down, you should slow down together and it should bring you both to a nice, comfortable stopping point.
Now if you’re looking for exactly what to say or how to keep the conversation going, don’t worry about it. I’ve placed some links below that have some resources, some information that can help you get started in how to start that conversation and how to keep it going. So feel free to check those links out and I’ll see you in another video.

Testimonial:
Bro, if you’re watching this video, do yourself a favor; do your life a favor and come to one of these boot camps. I’m telling you, it’s epic. Naturally Shy Guy initially; came to this boot camp; I mean you’re dealing with the best pick up artist in the world.
Shy completely was scared to open up girls, talk to them, do things. Now I – I feel like a rock star, man! Yesterday, I’ll give you an example, went out with my wingman and some of the pickup artists around, met a stripper, went and pile drove her in Four Seasons – rock starts; completely solid.
So I’m just telling you, take it from me. Do yourself a favor, go to these boot camps. Awesome – you’ll thank yourself.

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How to meet girls

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Best Pick Up Forum by Adam Lyons

In this video I’m going to talk about the best pick up forum for you to get advice. I think one of the hardest things about trying to learn to generate attraction with the opposite sex or even to understand the techniques of seduction is trying to go through the entire thing alone.
It’s great to have a forum as a resource to find and learn information from other people that have done it before, as well as posing your own problems and questions for other people to help you with.
Now there are so many different forums on the internet that it’s often difficult to work out the best one to work from. However, there’s one forum that I’ve been a member of for a very long time, were I tend to go on and post all my video advice, and also where I go to help out people with their problems every so often and of course there are a whole bunch of other people in there that help each other out as well.
What I’ve done is put a simple link to that forum below and all you have to do is click on that link, go through and request to become a member. Now it can take up to 24 hours or even a couple of days before they approve your membership but you should be able to look at the posts beforehand so you can already gain access to all that great information; and then once your membership’s approves, you can go in there, post up some questions and who knows? Maybe myself or some of the other experts can get involved and try and help you out with your problems.
So remember, finding a resource like a pick up forum is a great way to meet other likeminded individuals and maybe even find a wingman or a wing girl in your area that can help you when you’re going out and practicing the techniques. So just click on the link below and hope I see you in the forum!

Testimonial:
Before this bootcamp, my blocks were basically transitioning. I could always open a set, introduce myself to girls with opinion openers but I could never develop a set and develop attraction and progress a set in the direction that I wanted to. That’s what this bootcamp really helped me with.
What I loved the most about it is learning a formula for attraction, a mathematical equation that you would never expect to be related to attraction but yet it is absolutely key and genius. It will absolutely blow your mind as to how foolproof this formula actually is.
Before this bootcamp I was very reliant on alcohol to pick up girls and sometime even with alcohol I would still not achieve the success that I want in progressing a set in the direction I wanted. However, for the first time I’m very proud to say that not only did I open a set, progress the set, develop attraction, escalate kino, but I managed to take a belly dancer home to my house, to my apartment and have sex with her only on the second night of this bootcamp – I don’t know what to say. If you want to change your life, go to this bootcamp.

To get more dating advice, check out my 6-video DVD training series and book called Street Seduce. This program sells for $47, but right now it’s available to you as a complimentary digital download when you join my website! It contains the core building blocks of my entire approach to becoming exceedingly effective at making it with the opposite sex. Don’t miss this! Just enter your email address so I know exactly where to send the entire Street Seduce training package to you right away with my compliments.

Shit Pick Up Artists Say

Shit PUAs Say

Dude, are you wearing that really cool affliction shirt? You know, the one with the flames?
Did she send you a text? You gonna text her back? Don’t text her back, bro, that’s so needy!
Hey man, you Iceman_ 21? Gmoney _232323

No, I’m not going out with her tonight, I have to write my lay report.
Dude, go open that chick. I’ll give you 10 bucksto open hat chick.
Dude, there’s this line, it’s money, I totally read it on a forum.
Go ask her if her nails are real…
It’s not eyeliner, it’s” guy-liner”  –  the chicks love it!
Ask her if her eyelashes are real…
Give me a sec, bro, I need to get into state.
Dude, ask her if her hair is real.
So this total HB 10, right? She sent me a text message; she wanted to go ice skating. What do you think I said? “Hell, no! Ice skating’s not alpha!”
I’m actually ranked the 4th best PUA n southern Cincinnati.
Ask her if her boobs are real.
Hey bro, are young to the sarge-athon tonight?
John? You can’t pick up chicks with a name like John, you won’t get anyone. From now on, you could be Sexual Six-pack.
I was with this Russian chick …
So last night I was with this model, right?
Last night, picked up a stripper…
Last night, right? I was with this cheerleader chick.
You know, I think for Halloween I’m going to be a Facebook wall.
How do you get a same-night lay? Dude, easy – three steps. One, go up to her. Two, be alpha. three, tell her what you want – bam! Pussy  every time.

Man, how can I NLP this chick into getting an abortion?

So I’m in venue right when I see this HB across the room. She’s spitting at me IOI’s. So I go up, I open, I transition, out of nowhere comes this AMOG with this DHV story and he ruined my SNL. So I did the only thing I could do .I gave him a DLV that I learned from RSD which totally LJBF’d him. And I got to set it up for an MLTR. Back at my place, she gave me some LMR which made me feel like a total AFC. Out of nowhere she started busting out some bad ASD when I was trying to bump her BT – do ya feel me?

You like this headband? Lock in prop.
One time I picked up Paris Hilton. Well, she gave me her Twitter.
Alright, man. Now I’m going to teach you the micro macro jumbo hyper multi-level hoop calibration theory.
Hey, who do you think is better, Style or Mystery?
Hey, do you think this nail polish makes me look gay?

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Feel free to add your own suggestions of lines we could have included in the comments below!

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The Best Pick Up Lines – How to get girls to like you

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Pick up Lines by Adam Lyons

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In this video I’m going to talk about the best pick-up lines. People always ask me what I think is the best pick up like. If I’m going to be completely honest with you, my personal best pick up line is actually a combination line that uses a number of different people.

I’m a big fan of mixing different psychological principles together when it comes to generating attraction and one of my favorites – and of course the most powerful – is preselection. My best pick up line involves this technique.

The first thing you do is identify who you think are the hottest girls in the bar. At that point, I’ll walk to a girl I think is one of the hottest while another girl I think is equally hot is in the nearby vicinity. If this sounds a little bit complicated, it’s because it is! But it really is one of my most powerful techniques.

I then will move next to the girl I’m not that interested in but who I still think is pretty hot and I’ll say t her, “Hey; tell me three interesting things about yourself. Because I often find when I meet people in a bar,  they don’t often have much interest in things going on; but I can see you look like somebody who’s maybe got something interesting happening in your life – so what would you say are three of the most interesting things that you do?”

All I’ve done here is justify it using one of Stanley Millgram’s principles why she should tell me something interesting about herself. She then hopefully is going to launch into an entire conversation that’s at least three items long, telling me about interesting things she does. However, none of that really matters to me because I’m not going to be looking at her while she’s saying this.

Instead, I’m going to lean back and make eyes with the girl that I’m actually interested in talking to – while this girl is leaning in my ear and telling me all the things that are interesting about herself. At some point when I lock eye contact with the girl I’m actually interested in, I’m probably going to mouth the words, “Save me!” or maybe even, “Help me!”

By mouthing the words ‘save me’ or ‘help me’, I’m making it clear to the other girl that I don’t want to be talking to the girl next to me. And when I’ve got that locked eye contact and hopefully a bit of a smile, I’m going to excuse myself from the girl that’s telling me these interesting things and walk up to the other girl. I’m then going to say to her, “Hey, listen; this girl’s been chewing my ear off for ages. Can you pretend you’re with me so that we can get away from her?” That way the girl can pretend that the two of us are very close. She can understand that I’ve got a lot of preselection from the other girl – and of course, it gives us an excuse to go away and talk for a while.

Now this is a situation that a lot of girls are going to be familiar with the other way around. They’ll often look at a guy they’re interested in talking to and get him to save the from a guy that they don’t want to talk to. By recreating this situation in reverse, the girl’s going to feel a connection to you because she’s probably been in that situation before and now that she’s on the receiving end of it, she’s feeling like it’s her position to return the favor to somebody else; but of course, you get the benefit of that return favor.

It’s a little it of a complicated technique but all the best things usually are. If you’re looking for other simpler ways of making this work or even an more of an in-depth understanding of why that’s so powerful, I’ve added some resources in the description below. All you have to do is click on those links and it will take you through all the information that you need.
That’s about it from me, see you next time.

Testimonial 1:
I went from really not knowing any part of anything to really understanding from front to back how to work through getting a girl to notice you, to going to wherever you really want to go.

Testimonial 2:
For those of you that are only interested in results, I’ll just break it down: Kissing 4 or 5 different girls, went home with ne girl, went to a house party with another couple of girls; there are threesomes going on… It’s all just a bit too much to take in right now, it’s getting emotional. But anyone who’s thinking of investing in this, certainly it’s the best money I’ve ever spent in my life.

 

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Dating Advice

Adam Lyons

 

In this video, I’m going to give you some serious dating advice. Whenever you’re looking for advice on what to do o a date, you tend to get bombarded with different people giving you things like make sure you wear aftershave or make sure you dress well, whatever the different advice is. But  at the end of the day, I think the number one question that most guys want to ask (and even most girls) is when it okay to have sex with the other person? Let’s just cut through it – at the end of the day, is it okay to have sex on the first night and if not, when should you have sex?

 

In my opinion, I try to never go for sex on the first night. I find that there are so many connotations attached to it like re we just using each other? Is this serious? Does this mean he doesn’t respect me or does this mean I don’t respect him? or whatever the situation is.

 

In my opinion, if you’re going to have sex when you first meet somebody, the best way to do it is morning sex. What I like to do when I first go on a date with somebody, we go out, we spend an entire day together; maybe we go back to my place ad then we go to bed – I make it clear that I’m not going to have sex with them that night. Instead what I get the girl to do is cuddle up in my arms and hold her for the evening.

 

What this does is it forms a really special bond between you and the other person. You’ve been holding her all night and you’re building up a massive level of comfort with the other person. Now at this point when you slowly wake up in the morning, it should be really natural to start cuddling up to one another, kissing each other and then escalating.

 

First thing in the morning, it’s a lot more natural to have sex. You haven’t had to worry about feeling a little bit tired from the night before or maybe feeling a little bit drunk if you two have gone out and partied the night before. Instead, you can have that nice, warm, cozy feeling that you tend to have in a relationship when you have morning sex.

 

So one of the easiest ways to make sure if your dates are going okay if you’re a guy looking to get laid on the very first night when you meet a girl is – don’t rush it and instead just wait for the morning. You usually tend to find that the girl’s much more agreeable to have sex in the morning and she doesn’t feel so bad about it because the connotation – as they say – is the same night. It doesn’t have that same affect in the morning.

 

So if I had to give you one big piece of dating advice, it would definitely be look for morning sex instead. The only think you have to look out for of course, is morning breath. But as long as you can put up with that, that’s okay.

 

That’s about it from me. If you do want some more dating advice, maybe things to be saying on a date or different places to take someone on a date, don’t worry about it; I’ve added some links below so you can click on to get some information or maybe things you should be saying or doing on the date itself.

 

Testimonial:

My name’s Ineja. When I started this program, I’ll be honest it’s been a long time since I’ve  been laid – two years. Believe that, two years. I actually came into this program and… I actually  broke up with my ex girlfriend. She was four years, 17 to 21 when I was with her and after that, for two years I didn’t get laid. I just felt like I’d lost my confidence, trust in girls, whatever it was, I don’t know.

 

But after hours and hours of intense training I did with these guys, Adam Lyons and all PUA trainers here, man! The first night I did okay but the second night, I actually jumped from girl to girl; I did set to set and talked to all these girls and all of a sudden, things just blew up for me; I felt like it had opened up a whole new life.

 

I actually got laid n the second night. It was f**ig amazing; like, it hasn’t happened in two f**ing years, can you believe that? I attribute that to all these guys here, I know this stuff is real. Try it out, just try it for one week. It can change your life. It’s not the most important thing but every guy puts it away, you feel like you can do it later but man, some if you can really change and do something with your life. I’m telling you right now, I’m not bullshitting, this is f**ing real shit. Try it out.