Today I’m going to show you an example that illustrates why people don’t get the results they want with hot women.
They don’t actually want results.
That’s the only explanation I have for people who get dating advice and then never take the right action.
I’m not talking about action in general.
That’s actually a pet peeve of mine, when someone is like, “Take action, do things now!”
Heck, people are always doing things, the problem is that they’re usually doing the wrong thing.
Yesterday I was helping a guy out on Twitter. He was all about some girl he’d met and was wondering why she only replies to some of his texts. Now there are many reasons why this happens but the usual cause is “she’s just not that into you yet.”
He wanted to message her but was worried she wouldn’t reply so I gave him the following advice.
Send her a picture about something that you know she finds interesting and ask how her day is, then wait until she contacts you.
Here’s what he did,
He sent her a picture of some food he cooked, then followed that up 3 hours later asking her why she didn’t reply and whether she would meet up with him.
Let’s analyze this together.
1) Is his cooking something she finds interesting? Probably not. I’m sure she likes food, most people do. Heck, Instagram could probably be renamed “food porn pictures” based on the amount of images there are from food lovers. But I bet you $100 that there is something she finds more interesting than his cooking. And if he doesn’t know what that is then he didn’t talk to her properly when he first got her number!
2) He didn’t ask how her day was. Not that that question is the best to ask, but asking someone a question is a good way to guarantee a response. He just sent a picture of his food, and told her to look at what he was eating. There was no encouragement to respond from that.
3) He followed up with criticizing her for not replying (she could have been busy) then added pressure by trying to meet up with her.
“I’m sorry, I’m not looking for a serious relationship right now.”
He literally stuck the kind of pressure on her that breaks long term relationships… At the beginning, during the courtship, there was literally no way his route was going to work.
But here’s the part that makes me think he doesn’t want results….
…I told him what to do!!!
It’s not that he didn’t take action, he just took the wrong bloody one!
I literally told him what to do and he ignored it. He asked for my advice, and ignored what I told him to do. The only explanation I have for that is that somewhere deep down he just doesn’t want the results.
Do you really want the results?
Because I want to help you. I love helping guys attract and date hot girls, and the truth is, it’s easy. Here’s a start. Go ahead and learn about how conversation works by watching the video here.
Then use just 1 technique that you learn from it and email me letting me know how it worked for you. I bet it gets you into a longer conversation with a beautiful girl than you’ve had in a long time. The kind of girl that you could date, if you knew how to keep that conversation going.
Click on the link and find out.