While there are plenty of things you can learn that will help you seduce women—including psychological wordplay, subconscious subtleties, and step-by-step sequences almost guaranteed to take a woman from that first meeting to the first night in your bedroom, there are also some basic ingredients of attraction that are powerful enough on their own. So powerful, in fact, that working on them ahead of time, you can almost ensure women will be more attracted to you upon first meeting, before you even open your mouth. And best of all, once you set these in place, they have the power to attract woman towards you with practically no other efforts on your part. And what man doesn’t want a little bit of that in their life?
We call these basic tenets of seduction the 6 Principles of Attraction, and they form a solid foundation in Understand Attraction.
#1 Pre-selection
Pre-selection is the psychological tendency of women (and humans in general) to trust in something others have given their approval of already. Imagine you are driving through a town you don’t know and see a restaurant with plenty of cars out front and another restaurant with no cars out front. Even though it means a longer wait to get your meal, you’re far more likely to enter the restaurant with plenty of cars because other people have given it their stamp of approval. “The food must be good if everyone is at this restaurant!” It just seems a safer bet.
This is extremely evident in the dating world, and more so for attracting women. If you’re in a relationship or have a few women on your arm when you walk into a club, you are far more likely to have women respond to or even approach you. Make sure to check out page 40 in Understand Attraction for a high-powered strategy for harnessing this unique phenomenon and putting your game on steroids.
Here’s a hint: it has nothing to do with “tricking” people!
#2 Leadership
Do you influence the people around you, or are you always the follower? If it’s the latter of the two, trust me when I say that women can smell that on you a mile away. After all, which player on the football is the most attractive? Is it the second string kicker warming the bench or is it the starting quarterback who calls all the plays on the field? So how do you become the type of man who influences others—how do you become the leader? To be honest, it’s going to take some real work to change this obvious expression of your personality; read this article here for some tips on developing leadership skills, starting today.
#3 Ambition
Having an aim or desire to be successful in life. Ambition is always sexy in a man; women want someone who is going to chase his dreams into the ground, if that’s what it takes. And even if you don’t have anything in life, showing that you have dreams and the will to pursue them will attract women into your life—this is why you sometimes see men who have nothing dating women most rich men would die for.
And the fact that you’re working towards improving with women shows me you are at least a somewhat ambitious man. The problem, however, is that a lot of guys have tons of dreams but no follow-through, and to outsiders it’s obvious. Taking action on your ambitions is the key—don’t just be a keyboard jockey.
#4 Confidence
Ask anyone in the world about how women respond to confidence and they will tell you that confidence is one of the sexiest traits a man can possess, but what is confidence, really? How do you come across as confident and self-assured without seeming like you’re trying too hard? And, perhaps even more important, how do you strike the subtle balance between confidence and arrogance that so many men seem to botch up? Because a lot of guys try too hard to act overconfident and end up coming across as a jerk instead. Read this article here to learn more about drawing the line between confidence and overconfidence.
You can also check the section on confidence in Understand Attraction where you’ll learn about a secret trick Adam used to gain confidence throughout his journey towards becoming one of the world’s foremost experts on pickup. He often credits the decision to deal with confidence in this manner for paving his way to success.
#5 Excellence
The principle of excellence is the demonstration of superior skills and abilities, and you’ve very likely noticed the power this principle has over women ever since you were a young kid, watching the girls swoon over that kid who could knock the ball over the fence every time or the guy in high school who played mean guitar in a garage band. Believe it or not, this attraction towards men who display excellence is partly biological, as women subconsciously want these traits to be passed along to their children. Can’t dunk basketballs or do one-arm pushups while standing on your head? Feel like a show-off trying? Don’t worry because everyone has their unique natural talents — check out this article here for a list of skills you can work on that are especially suited to attracting women.
#6 Social Intelligence
Social intelligence is particularly interesting to a man studying ways to improve himself because it is so within control. The idea of social intelligence is that you deal with social situations well—that you know how to interact with people in a way that does not alienate you but at the same time allows you to stand out. It’s a fine balance to strike, but with a little direction and some practice in actual social situations, it can certainly be perfected. Check out this link for some tips on social etiquette in bars and nightclubs.
This article barely scratches the surface of how these principles apply to the real world. If you’re ready to learn more, then check out Understand Attraction. We delve deep into understanding what it is that attracts women towards you without you having to lift a finger and how best you can manipulate these natural laws to get the results you want in your dating life.
Are you ready to take control of human nature? Check out Understand Attraction now!
